Crystals for Conflict / Difficult Conversations

There are many crystals (most of the blue crystals) that activate our Throat Chakra and help us with communication and expressing our feelings.

If you're not sure where to start here are our favourite crystals to help with Difficult Conversations / Conflict

 

SELENITE  . . . cleanses our mind, body and soul, and helps remove toxic influence from our life.  It repels negativity, abuse, criticism and insults like water off a ducks back and helps us to stop listening and taking on board anything that doesn’t serve us.  It removes anything that holds us back.  Selenite brings peace and light to a person, space or situation. 

SODALITE . . .perfect for group situations, Sodalite helps us to communicate clearly and encourages good relationships​.  It organises our thoughts and helps us think logically and rationally.  Sodalite calms fear, overactive minds and overwhelm. ​ It encourages us to be honest, and to trust ourselves and others.  Sodalite helps us to express our feelings, communicate clearly ​and work together for a common goal rather than being competitive

RED JASPER . . . is a very grounding and nurturing stone that helps us to stop worrying and to be confident within ourselves.  Red Jasper is helpful for rectifying unjust situations, bringing fairness and justice.  It calms emotions, helps us to feel safe and secure, reduces stress and helps us to think quickly   

BLUE CALCITE . . . a gentle crystal that calms our emotions and soothes us when we’re worried or feeling down.  It cleanses negative energy and unwanted baggage, and brings peace, hope, positivity and fairness.  Blue Calcite connects our emotions with intellect, increasing our emotional intelligence helping us to share our feelings in a way that they can be accepted and understood​

KYANITE . . . protects our Aura while strengthening spiritual connections and intuition.   It dispels nervousness and strengthens our ability to communicate clearly and strengthens our logical thought.  Kyanite also removes any energy that doesn't belong​


WAYS TO USE CRYSTALS FOR CONFLICT / DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS

If you’re having a conversation with another person/s who are open to the energy with crystals, sit your crystals on a table next to you and together set intentions for the conversation.  For example:

  • We are open and honest
  • We listen to each others point of view
  • We will be kind to each other and give each other time tofind the right words
  • We will be fair and understanding
  • We are working towards a common goal of x x x
  • We will stick to fixing x x x today and will make a note of anything else that comes up to address next week

If the person/s with you aren't keen on crystals, that's ok, set your own intentions prior to your discussion and either pop your crystals on the table, next to you or in your pocket.

You can also ask, what ever you believe in, to bless your conversation, ask them for help to resolve what ever needs to be sorted.  As we believe in God we would pray something like this, but feel free to change and adapt to whatever your belief is. Here's an example of a prayer you could say:

Heavenly Father,  
I thank-you for knowing and understanding exactly what I'm going through.  
Please bless the conversation I'm about to have today.
Please protect the conversation from any negative influences from the enemy and surround us with love and peace. 
Please help us to remain calm and keep our hearts open so that we can listen to each others point of view. 
Please remove any baggage so that it's not bought into the conversation.
I trust in you to guide us and give your wisdom so that we may find a fair solution that works for us all. 
I thankyou for your blessing
Amen

 

Archangel Chamuel is the Angel of harmony and peaceful relationships so you could also ask him to be present and guide your conversation.

 

We hope this provides some ideas to get your started.  We offer one on one consultations either by video or face to face in East Auckland.  We're here to help, just contact us via instagram.

 

 

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